There was OUTRAGE in the black female
Why?
Because these women are delusional and bitter, that's why. They missed, or blatantly ignored, the one thing that really matters...
Reggie Bush would never date your ass anyway. And its NOT because you are black. He dates black women - just not exclusively. His college sweetheart is black and I'm pretty sure he was getting at Ciara for a bit.
Reggie Bush is attractive, athletic, rich, famous, and highly sought after by women of all colors. If Reggie Bush was single again, let's talk about the type of woman he likely would NOT go after:
Lames - Unattractive - Bitter - High Maintenance - Princesses - Grown Ass Brats - Women Who Have Yet To Deal With their Issues/Past - Insecure Hate Mongers
Now let's talk about what kind of woman would make a comment along the lines of "Reggie Bush is a White Supremacist" and suggest Essence magazine, of all rags, be protested for their indiscretions:
Lame - Unattractive - Bitter - High Maintenance - Princess - Grown Ass Brat - Women Who Have Yet To Deal With their Issues/Past - Insecure Hate Mongers
If you aren't getting my point its this...
Reggie Bush don't want you. So chill on the hate crimes.
Why direct so much venom towards ONE man who is currently dating a non-black woman? That's ridiculous. That's the type of shit that makes that Nightline special about "Why are so many black women STILL single" obsolete, because they don't deal with the real issues.
If the women who got so upset at seeing Reggie Bush on the cover of Essence would focus that energy on making themselves more attractive to black men (I didn't say physically) and practicing how to get along with Black Men instead of...whatever the hell it is these lame chicks do when the go on a date, guess what? They'd be able to pull one.
Why does Reggie like Kim?
Umm.. because she's beautiful, WEALTHY, into him, dresses nice, and apparently quite the freak in the bedroom. It doesn't matter if she paid for her body, its hers now, and he likes it. She also works hard to stay in shape, and probably is pretty nice to him... WHAT A CONCEPT! Also, she ain't even White, she's Armenian. And if you told me she was mixed, or light skinned, I'd probably believe. So take heart haters, Reggie's just dating a girl he thought was black, who cakes off tremendous amounts of dough on him. Feel better yet? No. Sorry.
What this whole situation really reflects is the anger/sadness/fear a lot of women, black women, have when it comes to dating.
They look at a guy like Reggie Bush and say "I want one of those. I'm fantastic, why can't I have one of those... who is THIS WHITE BITCH ON MY MAN I'LL KILL HER" - you see that? Zero to 60 in 1.5 seconds. Slow down.
First of all, while your mother and dad may tell you you are fantastic, chances are you're not. There are only so many truly fantastic people out there, and you could be one of them, but if you were really in that weight class, you'd be seeing some results.
No, you need to stay in your lane, and date guys on your level. The Reggie Bushes of the world really aren't interested in your life and your problems. Hell the regular dude with an accounting job isn't interested in your problems. If you mad at Reggie and Kim, you need to get your swag up and pull dudes, then you'd barely notice.
I'm amazed and deeply bothered by the number of black women I know who have NO SWAG. And instead of saying "Dr Hak, here's $1000 - help me" they just bitch and moan over and over again about how niggas ain't shit, all of them are liars and cheaters (that means you should stop dating guys based on their looks, pretending thats not why you chose him), only married men and ugly dudes try to talk to me (that means you're uglier than you think and need a Mary Kay makeover pronto), I can't find a man to take me on a date(leave the house ever?), etc etc.
Its sickening and its disgusting. Watch some Pam Grier movies and take notes. Get your mind right. Get your swag up.
Tell em why you mad son
I know a lot of people, men and women. Most of the attractive women I know claim to have the same problems as the less attractive ones. Strangely, its the more homely gals who keep dudes... I wonder why. Regardless, I don't really know any chics of any point on the 1 to 10 look rating scale who can't get DATES.
What you do with the options presented to you is your choice. Should I date the guy who never calls me except late or on weekends but is cute, or the kind gentleman who shows me a lot of attention. You already know what the answer is. Unless you have zero sexual/physical attraction to a man, you might want to let him show you what he's about.
Because Reggie Bush ain't walkig through that door...
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