I am not going to sit here and let all you single, disgruntled, and romantically challenged people talk mess about my favorite day of the year without a peep.
REAL TALK - all of you who hate on Valentine's Day do so at your own peril when Dr. Hak is in the building.
What other day can you easily identify who is, and is not available for you to get at without too much brain wrestling? What other day can you get guaranteed birthday-style sex if you're in a relationship? What other day is dedicated to people appreciating someone else? Christmas is just about gifts. Thanksgiving is about turkey and football now. Valentine's Day is, and always will be, about Love.
Love. The one thing that will never leave this Earth as long as humans are on it. In theory, all Christains could be wiped from the planet in a plague. Christmas will be forgotten. Thanksgiving is an American only holiday. China will destroy us soon, right? (No - they will not). What's President's Day for when America goes to the Monarch system?
Love will be around forever.
Don't let old situations cloud your view of love.
And don't sit here pretending like you don't want to be in a strong, healthy, loving relationship ONE DAY.
And REALLY stop fronting like you don't F with V-day like that because you happen to not have a Valentine THIS YEAR when you know if you had one you'd be relatively excited to find out where you were going for dinner/what he was going to get you/what she is going to wear that night.
It's disingenuous, flawed, and fake to hate on Valentine's Day because of your CURRENT situation.
You want a Valentine? You want someone to love you for all your greatness and glory. OK then, do this... SHOW LOVE.
SHOW LOVE TO GET LOVE.
That's what it takes.
You're a good looking woman, but you have a nasty attitude. Fired.
You're a good dude, but you are stingy with these "golddigging" females. No one likes a cheapskate.
Show love to get love. It's that simple.
I blog to show love. And guess what I get in return? That's right, love. Everytime someone says "read this", that's showing love. And I sincerely appreciate it.
I love you too.
Next Valentine's Day is 362 days away. You have time to get it right.
Valentine's Day is okay with me...with or without someone. Since love is an action and not a feeling, I choose to show love on a daily basis to family, friends, and even those who may not reciprocate back. Why? It's much better than wasting energy disliking or hating someone. Plus, bitterness will age you quickly and I'm trying to stay looking 25. LOL!
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