This plan is foolproof, by the way. There are a couple of pre-requisites, I should say. As in, be over your ex's, be emotionally available, actually want to be in a real relationship and not be scared or not ready for the consequences of such...
1. Make yourself available to be met. That means get out the damn house, don't travel in packs larger than 4. 3 is the correct number.
2. Be nice to guys who approach you. Don't turn down anyone for contact info based on looks unless he's U-G-L-Y. Don't ask for his number unless he's comically shy.
3. Stop dealing with him if warning signs pop up. You know what warning signs are. If you don't, your male friends will interpret for you (except the ones who are trying to get at you).
4.Decide if he's worth your time within 3 dates or 6 weeks. Be upfront and let him know of your decision to not romantically date him if you decide he's not right for you romantically. If he disagrees, he gets one more date if you feel like it. Just one.
5. Act right. Show interest in the things he's interested in. Hook him up. Honor his requests as often as he honors yours.
I do all those things, except for 1 and 2 and sometimes 5. :p
ReplyDeleteUmm... that's more than half.
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